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04-14-2014, 12:47 AM #85
Re: TMZ says Kaepernick is under investigation for sexual assault
Actually, if you walk into a lion's den it IS your fault if a lion eats you. If you are a human being of sound mind, you understand that a lion's natural instinct--in ITS mind, what it is SUPPOSED to do--is eat you. You exist to a lion solely for the purpose of being eaten. That lion exists solely for the purpose of eating you. If you went to Africa on a safari tour with, let's say, Wildlife Safari Tours, and you hopped out the jeep and went prancing across the serengeti and a lion ate you, your family would lose its lawsuit against Wildlife Safari Tours because nature is nature. There was no reason to assume a lion WOULD NOT eat you.
You are doing no favors to men everywhere by comparing sexual assault to people getting eaten by lions. A lion will eat what it eats when it wants to because that's what nature has told it is the right thing to do for its survival. How is raping someone equivalent to that? Because men are like lions, and if you put a piece of meat in front of them they are no longer accountable for their actions? Because men naturally think it's RIGHT to put their penis in things, with no disregard for if the living thing they put it in wanted it there? Because men are predators with no self-control? Granted, some men are like this, but I think the majority are not. And those who are need to grow the fuck up and learn self-control before they end up in jail.
You can say you're not condoning rape until the cows come home, and I truly believe you believe you are not, but there is nothing--NOTHING--in the world that makes it OK for a man to have sex with a woman if that woman has not consented. Nothing. Being in an apartment with three men, two of them strangers, was not advisable on many levels, but it doesn't mean her body is no longer hers. Being there when she'd previously had sex with one of those guys doesn't mean her body is no longer hers. Going into a bedroom doesn't mean her body is no longer hers. I myself could walk into any man's house in America, plop down on their bed totally naked, and take pills/drink/whatever to make myself go unconscious before they came home. When they do come home and find me, they STILL don't have the right to have sex with me. There is no such thing as "asking for it," which is what you're missing.My Ravens Blog: Brittany Rants About Football
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Re: TMZ says Kaepernick is under investigation for sexual assault
The 2nd paragraph is what exceletor and some others appear to be missing. Theyre immediately assuming shes lying because she put herself in a bad situation when im not convinced shes even the one driving it or saying its sexual assault to begin with. She has no idea what happened. I still dont see hanging out with 3 dudes as a bad situation until THEY make it a bad situation so I think thats BS, but either way she and the police are investigating because theres questions with no answers.
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Re: TMZ says Kaepernick is under investigation for sexual assault
Your jungle reference makes all men out to be sexual predators incapable of self control. Thats ridiculous.
I mean a woman with three dudes hanging out and drinking/smoking how did she think she wouldnt be molested/raped if she passed out?
Does that really seem ok to you that they should be inherently linkedA? Women should just expect that? I get your paragraph about criticizing I just dont think it should be something that should be expected. THEY made it a bad situation and By the time it was she was in no shape to do anything about it. Yet shes criticized for their actions?
Is it smart to have 50k in your front seat? No because people steal.
Is it smart to get in a car with a drunk? No because drunks arent safe behind the wheel.
Is it good to hang out with men drinking? No because they rape?... thats where Im disconnected.Last edited by JAB1985; 04-14-2014 at 08:54 AM.
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04-14-2014, 08:02 AM #88
Re: TMZ says Kaepernick is under investigation for sexual assault
This is why I like to take gender out of the argument, if only long enough to make a point. If a guy went over to some buddies house, say three or 4 of them They have some shots, smoke a bong and he passes out. Would he feel, waking up and realizing he'd been violated sexually despite having no memory of it, that is was simply his fault for putting himself in a bad situation?
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04-14-2014, 08:08 AM #89Legendary RSR Poster
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Re: TMZ says Kaepernick is under investigation for sexual assault
Just a small bit of advice Ex.
Best way to get out of a hole is to first stop digging.
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04-14-2014, 08:52 AM #90Hall Of Fame Poster
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04-14-2014, 08:55 AM #91Hall Of Fame Poster
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Big ups to this post as well. People who engage in this kind of victim-blaming are basically insinuating that all men are potentially rapists. As a man, that is deeply insulting to me, yet it is almost always men who are saying shit like this to begin with. Do they not realize the implications of this way of thinking?
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Re: TMZ says Kaepernick is under investigation for sexual assault
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04-14-2014, 09:40 AM #93Legendary RSR Poster
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Re: TMZ says Kaepernick is under investigation for sexual assault
^^^ wrong thread perhaps?
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